We have all heard the phrase “two wrongs do not make a right” and I am hopeful that today’s parents are still passing along this value to their children. Looking back, there were many of these sayings and they ultimately had an impact on my life decisions. Another saying that sticks in my mind is, “always put yourself in the other person’s shoes.” However, my favorite was always to think for yourself and not accept what you hear as the undisputable truth. These and other life lessons can leave a deep impression on a young mind and become a shaping tool for the journey into adulthood.
My father and I would have discussions about everything from politics, religion or how the family business should be run. Oftentimes, I would say something that would set him off. The tipping point would be when I would respond with my final defensive salvo, “You taught and even encouraged me to be an independent thinker. I am sorry some of my conclusions differ with yours, however I respect you.” This would typically result in him not talking to me for a period of time.